As a foster parent herself, she knows the struggles of balancing foster care life. Toya wrote this book with her daughter in mind. She seen her daughter struggles with the her feeling when foster kids come and go through the home. Toya wanted a way to explain to her how she can help and express her feelings. Toya thought that she couldn’t be the only foster parent with this issues. So, she wanted this book to be a resource to child and parent.